What happens after your BDSM application.

What happens next? What happens when you have submitted an application to Madame Lockwood.

Filling out the application screening form is just the beginning.

Many people are under the impression that submitting an application automatically means they have booked a session. It does not. If I deem your application to show potential, it simply means I will take the screening to the next stage, it does not yet mean approval.

Every individual application is reviewed personally.

Every application submitted through my website is reviewed personally by Madame Lockwood

The things I look for are

• Honesty

• Thought and Effort

• Communication

• Not perfection.

I want to get to know you as an individual not a list of kinks or fantasies. The initial questions are designed to assess if we are a suitable match? Do I offer the service you are requesting? Am I available on your requested dates/times? Do I need clarification for any limits you have listed?

The next step.

The next step after you application has been received and reviewed, I will send you a follow up communication.

This follow up process is an opportunity for both you and I to ask questions and clarify expectation, limits and boundaries.

A successful D/s dynamic begins and works because of clear communication, not assumptions.

Session Planning.

During the follow up communication I will have a better understanding of what your seeking from the session. Each session is tailored to your interests and limits, however I decide the final session plan. There is no script or performance. Each individual session is built around communication, compatibility, and in agreed expectations and boundaries.

Confirmation and Deposit.

Madame Lockwood's website clearly explains the deposit process.

You applied, you showed potential and had further screening, now the session has been approved. Now it is time to pay the required non-refundable deposit. Before details are confirmed and deposit has been received the booking date/time will remain open to others. As soon as the deposit is received and confirmed, the booking is confirmed and further booking details will be provided. The address of my dungeon is only disclosed closer to the date of the booking.

If this is your first visit then you may find My First Session Guide helpful.

Your application was refused?

I refused your application for a reason. Not every application is accepted.

It may be as simple as our expectations do not align. I do not provide the service you requested. Not every application will progress. Sometimes I do not believe I am the right Dominatrix for you, or you are not the right submissive for me.

It is not a personal criticism if your application has been refused, I am simply being honest and avoiding any disappointment for either of us.

Trust starts before you enter my Dungeon.

Many people think that trust only starts when they enter my dungeon.

NO.

Trust begins from the very first contact. Trust starts with open consensual communication. It is built through patience, honesty, reliability and mutual respect long before we first meet.

Madame Lockwood has not built the screening process to create hoops for you to jump through. It is in place to create, clear expectations and a solid foundation.

A successful session does not begin when you arrive at my private dungeon. It begins with the first impression you make.

The same application process applies whether you are enquiring about 1-1 in-person sessions or online sessions and training.  

Make a good first impression.