BDSM Screening Forms

BDSM Screening forms and how to use them;

If you are considering booking a session, or applying for on-line training with a professional dominatrix, your first first point of contact is usually via a screening form. Unless contact has been made through another platform or social media and you are in turn referred back to the website and screening form.

Many people see forms as unnecessary paperwork. I see it very differently indeed. I see paperwork as a very important part of the process.

A screening form to me is not a test designed to catch you out. It is an opportunity for you to introduce yourself properly, and for me to understand whether we are likely to be a good fit for a D/s dynamic.

Why are screening forms used?

Each individual approaching me is different.

Some are clearly experienced submissive's, others are clearly new to BDSM, while some are pure fantasists and are ignored. The experienced sub's know exactly what they are looking for and how to approach a professional dominant, while others are new and do not yet know the protocol or their full interests/limits and boundaries so are exploring. We all started somewhere.

The screening form helps me understand who you are, what it is you are looking for and whether I am happy to meet your expectations.

It also saves a lot of time wasting for both of us, when you provide the relevant information that is required on the form, before any further communication takes place.

How should I complete the screening form?

• Take your time.

• Read each question carefully and answer it honestly.

A thoughtful application tells me far more than a rushed one. You do not need to write me an essay, but one-word replies rarely provide enough information for me to assess your application properly.

New or experienced, there is no expectation that you already know everything, and like submissive's, no Two Mistresses' are the same. Honesty is always far more valuable than trying to impress me with just words.

What information is helpful to put onto the screening form?

The most important and useful information includes:

• Your Name/Alias

• Level of experience (if any)

• What are your interests/what has brought you to BDSM

• The type of dynamic you are hoping to explore

• Any relevant limits/concerns/boundaries

• Dates/Times and session length you require

Clear communication helps avoid misunderstandings later.

What happens when I have applied and sent the screening form?

I review the information you have provided on the screening form, If I believe we may be a suitable match, I will contact you to discuss the information provided and to clarify that information.

Not every application is approved, and that is perfectly normal. Suitability works both ways.

Why I value your effort

One of the first things I notice is the effort people make.

An application that has been completed with care, demonstrates respect for the process and shows that you have taken the time to understand how I work.

That does not guarantee approval of course, but it certainly creates a much better first impression than a rushed or incomplete application, or an application that is purely fantasy.

My screening forms are in place to help and support, not intimidate. They create structure and encourage clear communication, allowing us to decide whether moving forward to either a session or online training is the right choice. A good D/s dynamic begins long before the session or online training begins.

Final word:

If you are genuinely interested in either booking a real time in person session, to be held in my Dungeon in Reading, Berkshire: or you would prefer online training and communication, use the screening form and be sure to complete it honestly and thoughtfully.

Stay Kinky & Safe

Madame Lockwood