Fake Dommes & Scammers: What you need to know.

It takes time, patience, and discernment to find a Dominatrix who is both compatible and genuinely professional. A quick search or social media follow may give you endless opportunities - but not all of them are what they claim to be.

This is where many submissives make mistakes.

A Professional Dominatrix does not operate on impulse or desperation. You are not booking a casual interaction - You are entering a controlled, structured dynamic that requires mutual respect from the outset.

Respect comes first

Approach Correctly. A serious Dominatrix expects:

• Clear Communication

• Defined Limits and Boundaries

• Respect in both Tone and Conduct

You are not leading the interaction - you are presenting yourself for consideration.

This is a Power-exchange, not a customer experience service.

Deposits & Screening and Non-Negotiable

A reputable Dominatrix will require more than a simple message and payment.

You should expect:

• A Screening Process

• Clear terms of engagement

• A deposit to secure booking

Deposits exist to filter out time-wasters and confirm commitment. If someone does not screen you or accepts anything without structure, that is your first warning sign.

Communication Defines the Dynamic

BDSM is built on Consent, Clarity, and Trust Communication begins immediately - often through a screening form. This is not a formality; it is your opportunity to demonstrate:

• Self-awareness

• Respect

• Understanding of your desires and limits

If you are unsure about anything, ask - properly.

A professional Mistress will always consider your:

• Physical Safety

• Mental Wellbeing

• Financial Boundaries

Anything less is not professionalism.

A note on my evolution

Returning submissives will recognise a shift.

What was once " The Poison Ivy Den, and where I was known as Mistress Ivy has evolved.

Growth brings refinement.

You will now address me as:

Madame Lockwood, in the Dungeon of Discipline.

Standards have risen accordingly.

Final Word

Private BDSM sessions with Madame Lockwood are available via the dedicated screening form on the website.

• The Dungeon is available for Private Hire

• Online training is available for those who can not travel

• All tribute fees are agreed prior to acceptance

• Deposits are required to confirm bookings.

Fees are subject to change based on behaviour. Ongoing sessions may be withdrawn or training may be withdrawn at any time.

A professional Dominatrix is not available for endless, unpaid conversation. Understanding submission takes time, consistency, and willingness to l learn.

One session will not define you - but it may begin something far more structured. You will not know your place until you step forward correctly.