Why you're not being chosen.
- Madame Lockwood

- May 2
- 2 min read
Why you are not being chosen as a submissive (And how to fix it).
Most of you are not being chosen or selected - You are being overlooked. You are being assessed, and most of you fail long before you ever get a responce. You may not even get a responce and be completly ignored.
You like to think you are submissive. But what you actually are is, hesitant, inconsistant and feel intitled. That is why you are ignored.
You are not a REAL Submissive - You just like the idea.
There is a very clear difference between liking the fantasy and living the behaviour.
A real submissive:
Will follow instructions without delay or question
Will learn and understand their role in submission and servitude
Will not require constant reassurance or make demands
BUT - Most of you:
Ask questions about the information and instructions already provided
Delay action
Wait to be convinced
The difference is Submission and Passivity. If you have read this and recognise yourself, then stop reading and correct yourself.
Reasons for my immediate rejection.
This is where most of you fail immediately and loose your opportunity to serve me.
The information provided on my website is not read
Screening form's submitted are vague, incomplete, and full of fantasy
Individuals expect my attention, without offering any effort or value themselves
Most of you hesitate when it boils down to real commitment
You want control, disguised as submission. You want to top from the bottom, and THAT is why you are ignored, over-looked, not chosen.
A true professional, lifestyle Dominatrix is not looking for potential.
I am looking for proof.
My attention is earned - Not given
I do not notice you because it something you want. I notice you, only when and how you approach. That means:
A clear and respectful approach
An understanding and willingness to learn the structure of a D/s dynamic
Know that you will invest - Your time. Your energy. Your money.
If that makes you feel uncomfortable already, then you are clearly not ready for this lifestyle. If you are still reading, why are you not acting? Fix that right now and push my button.
Let me see who stands out from the crowd, who is really ready to become submissive to me. Which of you will I respond to.
Final Word
I will not chase you. I will not convince you. I never have, or will have, my high standards lowered.
You now have two options considering you have read this far:
Stay exactly where you are - ignored, unnoticed, replaceable, a watcher.
Prove to me you are different, worth seeing, submissive.
If you believe you are worth my time and attention show it. Prove it.

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