Why most Submissives get ignored by a Dominatrix (And how to approach properly).

Most submissives that contact me are ignored.

Not because I am unavailable. But because they immediately show me they are not worth my time and effort.

If that makes you feel uncomfortable, good. You need to understand this before approaching any professional Dominatrix - Especially me.

The mistakes you make, that get you ignored.

Now let me be clear. I do not respond to low effort.

If your screening form or message via social media looks like any of the following, you've already disqualified yourself:

• "Hi", "Hey", "You available"

• No details only fantasy

• Rambling needy messages with no actual structure

• Lack of respect and manners

• Expecting my time and attention for free

This tells me everything. No need for screening.

You lack discipline, direction, and respect.. I do not invest my time and effort into correcting that. Even if you are new to the lifestyle, you will know and understand that manners and respect are free.

Approaching a professional Dominatrix is not a casual encounter.

This is where a lot of you fail.

You are not sending a casual message or application form. You are presenting yourself for evaluation. When you approach a Professional Dominatrix, you are being assessed on:

• Your communication level

• Your mindset

• Your ability to follow instruction and direction.

If you are unable to structure a simple introduction, the you are not ready for a BDSM session, either online or in person.

My personal Standards

My expectations of you are not complicated at all, they are simply optional.

You will:

• Communicate in a clear and intentional manner

• State the type of session you require E.G. Online Training or In Person Session

• Respect the fact that my time is limited and paid for

• Understand the information provided to you

A lot fail at this level, and that is why they are ignored.

What actually gets my attention

A submissive earns a response from me, not by begging for it.

They will:

• Communicate with me clearly and directly

• Know what they want or need

• Demonstrate effort

• Respect structure, boundaries and limits

• Honesty

You are not here to impress me with your fantasies. You are here to show you can follow direction, instruction, and be worth my time and effort.

The reality

I am selective.

Not everyone gets access. Not everyone gets a reply.

Some require further screening, most are ignored, it is not accidental.

It is a decision based on the effort you failed to show me.

If you are serious about serving

Prove it and act now.

Do not send another weak message or screening application form.

Do not waste my time testing my limits.

DO:

• Read the information available to you on my website

• Complete the screening form in full

• Be clear in your intentions and expectations

Be prepared for further screening or be ignored

If you meet my standards, you will be considered; If you fail, you will be ignored.